Carey's mother died this morning.. or..night.. whichever.. She died in her sleep.
I guess if there was a question 'why' then it'd be more precise.
His brother, George, EMAILED him..
WTF.. seriously.. you couldn't email with "please call me asap, it's important" instead of
Carey,
Mom left early this morning and Jon said to please let you know.
Dean is here. We went and saw Geoff yesterday and he is doing better. He can talk a little now.
George "
I guess it's not so serious?
Meh. two things, Carey makes himself not available if you call him.. and.. he makes himself unavailable by phone.. at least ask him to call.. f***!
Jon, Dean, Geoff and George are 4/5 of his brothers.. Peter is his other brother.. and Geoff has had a couple of strokes recently.
Carey hasn't even seen a picture of his grandparents.. =o(
I wrote down an address of his mom's family.. they sent her a holiday card..
Maybe I'll write them about photos (besides Rosalind's death).. Maybe I should contact John.. (Jon?)
Family weirdness.. HUMAN weirdness..
I also learned my grandma's husband (Papa.. Ray) doesn't want my aunt to know when he passes until after everything has been done..
He holds a grudge and my mom has had a falling out with my aunt.. so it's weird.. Papa has this grudge against my aunt.. because she was lovely while my grandmas was alive, and after that, no real contact with papa. so. he's disappointed.
I was yelling about my mom not letting his grudge go between her & her sister... considering all of the interactions she's had with her sister.. Bad move to ask my mom to hold his grudge.. =o( My assumption, though. Apparently my aunt has displayed less than awesome behaviors about feeling entitled after my great grandmother and grandmother's death..
Ugh.. death is weird.
Rosalind.. love to you!!
Ah well.. good night, Internetlandia..